- The type of family doesn’t matter
- Having both parents present is important
- All a kid needs is one of the parents if they do a good job
- When kids grow up they don’t remember things such as parents being present or not
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If done right, the benefits of shared parenting can spread across the entire family. One way that these benefits are shared is by direct interactions between both parents and their children. When the relationship ends and parents move into separate homes, children sometimes fear that they’ll lose touch with the parent who moves out or that their relationship will never be the same again. Allowing kids to spend time in both of their parents’ homes will benefit kids by helping them to feel less like they are forced to take sides. It will also help kids to understand that they were not abandoned by either of their parents after the split. Parents are also going through a difficult time with all the changes happening around them; it’s not easy for them to have to reduce the amount of time that they spend with the kids, too. Regular contact between the kids and each parent helps to reduce these feelings of loss on everyone’s part. Even though the intimate relationship between parents has ended, this doesn’t mean that being a family ends as well. Shared parenting time allows for children to continue cultivating relationships with each of their parents individually. A parenting time arrangement will be an important piece that dictates the amount of time each parents spends with their kids. A 50/50 parenting time plan will allocate each parent with equal time, but this is not always the best fit for every family. No matter what the parenting time agreement becomes, parents and kids can still be in touch with each other when they are not together via phone, text, email, or even webcam. If done right, technology can benefit shared parenting by keeping a family in touch even when they cannot all be together physically. Staying in touch even when apart helps parents and kids to maintain relationships and lessen the emotional stress of being apart.
Shared parenting benefits run deeper than simply fostering relationships within a family. If done right, shared parenting can also encourage healthy child development. Children have different emotional needs at different stages of their lives. Very young kids might be vocal about how much they miss Mom or Dad when they aren’t with one of them, and some teenagers might seem indifferent about which parent they are staying with. The reverse of these two scenarios is also possible, meaning that every child truly is different no matter their age. When children are still very young, they often benefit from spending ample time with each of their parents. They are still constructing relationships with both of them, and these bonds formed early in a child’s life help to develop long-standing trust and friendship. As kids get older and have more responsibilities like school or part-time jobs, it might become more difficult to have frequent parenting time transitions. While there may be less frequent transitions, periods of parenting time might last longer than before. This gives a child an opportunity to focus more on their own responsibilities while not having to worry about getting packed to go to their other parent’s house so often. Technology helps families stay connected in these cases when someone is away for a period of time, so parents and kids should be able to reach each other whenever they need to even when apart. With the bonds that parents and kids developed early on and continue to cultivate today, plus the technology that allows them to stay connected, being away from each other might not feel as hard as it could. If done right, having these factors in place helps to promote healthy emotional development in kids in the long run.
Encouraging healthy development in kids is something both parents should do. If done right, parents should be working to collaborate their efforts in this instead of working against each other. Shared parenting often calls for the parents to discuss matters regarding their kids and their schedule, so a need for communication is created. For many parents who have unsettled disputes between them, just talking to each other might be difficult enough. Finding a neutral ground for communication, such as an online platform that doesn’t require face-to-face or phone communication, can help to isolate potentially heated conversations to a place where the kids cannot observe it. When you must meet with your co-parent directly for an event such as a parenting time exchange, you can keep your interaction between each other brief and reserve anything you might want to say to your neutral communication platform. When parents are able to set aside conflicts in front of the kids, everyone benefits. One benefit is that children will see their parents as positive role models for how to communicate in a cordial manner with others. Another benefit is that unwanted anxiety and stress will be lifted off the kids’ shoulders by not watching their parents argue. By putting this kind of communication into practice, parents have the opportunity to build an amicable relationship over time that is centered on collaborating efforts for the sake of their children’s well-being.
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Example: There are no benefits in having both parents present. False
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Both and Neither
We use both to connect positive ideas, whereas neither is used to connect negative ideas. After phrases with both or neither, we use the verbs in the plural form.
Expressing Solutions
Useful expressions to declare solutions:
( ) Democrats control _______ Congress nor the White House, but they are trying their best to control the judicial nominating process.
( ) The author has already said that the Half Blood Prince is _______ Harry nor Voldemort.
( ) The author relies primarily on a variety of written sources, _______ manuscripts and printed.
( ) He was that rare bird, a significant figure in two fields, _______ art and science.
( ) There are wallabies, meerkats, flamingoes, maras and tamarin monkeys in _______ zoos.
( ) It is _______ our intention nor in our interest to take him out or hurt him.
(1) The conclusion there seems to be that _______ a tenth planet and an errant star are unlikely to exist.
( ) Circe and Alex _______ stood up and began walking down the branch gymnasts on the balance beam.
(2) Democrats control _______ Congress nor the White House, but they are trying their best to control the judicial nominating process.
(2) The author has already said that the Half Blood Prince is _______ Harry nor Voldemort.
(1) The author relies primarily on a variety of written sources, _______ manuscripts and printed.
(1) He was that rare bird, a significant figure in two fields, _______ art and science.
(1) There are wallabies, meerkats, flamingoes, maras and tamarin monkeys in _______ zoos.
(2) It is _______ our intention nor in our interest to take him out or hurt him.
(1) The conclusion there seems to be that _______ a tenth planet and an errant star are unlikely to exist.
(1) Circe and Alex _______ stood up and began walking down the branch gymnasts on the balance beam.
Example: Both chocolate and honey are tasty.
Complete the sentences with BOTH or NEITHER.
Example: In ____ cases, the architecture and lights operate in tension with each other. > In both cases, the architecture and lights operate in tension with each other.
At the end of each hand,
But neither she nor her three sisters,
Italian pastry-cooks worked
Democrats control neither Congress nor the White House,
When they finally meet it’s love at first sight,
( ) who are 12, 19 and 23, were railroaded into sport.
( ) but they are trying their best to control the judicial nominating process.
(1) if both players on a team won, the team scores the total of their points.
( ) and neither they nor the reader can quite believe how sudden and idyllic it all is.
( ) in both France and England during the 16th century and introduced many new baked goods.
At the end of each hand,
But neither she nor her three sisters,
Italian pastry-cooks worked
Democrats control neither Congress nor the White House,
When they finally meet it’s love at first sight,
(2) who are 12, 19 and 23, were railroaded into sport.
(4) but they are trying their best to control the judicial nominating process.
(1) if both players on a team won, the team scores the total of their points.
(5) and neither they nor the reader can quite believe how sudden and idyllic it all is.
(3) in both France and England during the 16th century and introduced many new baked goods.
Example: he / of life / sentenced / to concurrent / In March / imprisonment./ counts / was / on both / terms / > In March he was sentenced on both counts to concurrent terms of life imprisonment.
Example: I’ve lost my cellphone. < The best way to find your cellphone is to call it.
Example: I love floral scents even though I’m not a big fan of sweet scents, and I think that both are…